In this growing age of tension and worries, we can see a whole lot
problems arising like hypertension, depression, mental disorders and many more.
Some of which leads to a person in such a situation that hampers thinking
abilities of people and leave them all blank. They find themselves in such a
situation that, they can't take decisions of their lives, unable to understand
what is wrong and what is right. They cut off from the outer world and keep on
pissing inside and blame themselves and they leave themselves with no option
but to SUICIDE.
Take a look around you that how many of your friends, family or
relatives might have committed the sin but do you think was that a right
option? Was that the only option they left with? We just can't get to
conclusion why they did so? Its a past thing and we can't change it. Maybe we
can change our present for a better future. With this growing rate of suicides
in the recent past one has to step up to bring it down, so that no person ends
his/her lives and no families have to suffer.
People commit suicide for many reasons but some reasons are so
silly that people are unable understand why did they do that? The most common
reason for suicides are generally :- Love failure , Failure in studies, Tension
to achieve higher percentage, Business loss, Parental pressure, Indulge in
illegal activities, Higher expectations, Peer pressure and many more....
Now let's sort out ourselves and understand what to do if you find
yourself in such kind of situations.
Love Failure
The most common reason for suicide in today's world is love
failure and most commonly seen in the youth of the society generally school and
college going kids. They commit themselves in such relationship promises that
are generally not bound to happen. Both girls and boys keep on making promises
that they are unable to fulfill and when these promises broke they take such
kind of steps that are unacceptable. The most common victims in this are
generally girls because they do take things very seriously.Now what to do if
you find yourself in such a situation? Is there any way to get out of this
situation? Well the answer is yes but depends on your will power. If you are
willing everything is possible if not then there is no way out You are trapped.
Things to do when you find yourself in this situation:-
- Sit down
take a deep breathe and don't panic.
- Try to
forget everything and don't think about what happened in the past, just
look forward build a strength to leave all behind.
- Now just
look at your parents face and imagine, from what they will go through
seeing you dead. They never gave you birth to see this. The biggest pain
in a father's life is to perform his child's last rituals.
- Don't leave
yourself ever alone because your loneliness will drive your evil brain to
evil thoughts. Spend a whole lot of time with family, friends or animals
(believe me animals can relieve your pain very fast).
- Indulge
yourself in activities that you find happiness in. Follow your passion,
play games, read motivational blogs, read novels.
- Keep a
family photograph always with you as their happy faces will always give
you motivation.
- Don't think
about the past ( I know its hard to forget as memories automatically
flashes) just focus on your life goals and your family.
Always keep in mind that your parents have done a whole lot of
sacrifices for you and the person you met in recent times has become more
important to you than your family. Its not that person who taught you how to
walk, how to drive cycle, paid your school/tuition fees, bear all your
expenses, fulfilled all your dreams killing their owns. Just think of them and
do something worthy that your parents should be proud of before you die.
I also have 2 real life based stories that followed the above steps
and now living a happy life and are following their passion and are earning for
themselves and their families, those will be posted someday soon.
Failure In Studies
Nowadays you will see a growing rate of committing suicides among the students. Every now and then you will find in the news that a student has committed suicide just because he scored less in examination. This is clear bullshit. People how can you even think of it, your future is not dependent on a single sheet of paper that is dumped every passing year. There is a whole lot of opportunities are waiting to be explored. Don't just waste your and your parents life by committing the sin.
Steps to follow to get out of the situation if trapped in:-
- Take a deep
breathe and don't worry about it, take it easy and focus.
- Talk to
your parents about it they will always be there to help you out.
- Don't
listen to anyone especially relatives, because their comments will always
demoralize you.
- Don't let your
morale down, stay calm stay focused and work hard so that you could shut
all those mouths that were against you.
- Challenge
yourself that this won't happen again.
- Spend more
time with family and friends and try to find happiness in all the small-2
things.
- Indulge
yourself in some worthy things like exercise, reading, writing etc., they
will surely help you to recover.
Life is to precious don't waste it like this.Your mother has bear
the pain for nine months, your father broke his back earning so that he can
fulfill all your dreams, Maybe sometimes they might get angry on you or might
even slap you but they do that only just to teach you a lesson and make you
understand that how much they have been doing for you and you given only one
duty that only you cannot perform well. So please don't take any kind of step
that leaves your parents shattered.
Business Loss
Risk is the basic element of all the businesses running around the
world. Risk is the factor that can earn you the returns or can even lead to
shutting down the business. If sometimes you earn higher returns then there
might be chances of occuring losses also. They are part of business and it will
be beneficial if we keep that to the business only and not to mix it with the
personal lives. Some people treat their personal and business life the same and
then the problem arises. People tend to think after a loss that they are left
with nothing and choose the wrong path ending up their lives. Losses are part
of the business so one has to tackle with it smartly.
Things to follow if you are trapped in this kind of situation:-
- Don't
panic, losses are part of the business.
- Careful
study of problem is to be done as ending your lives will create more and
more problems for your family and friends.
- Talk to
your elders and some experienced person they will help you to get out of
the trauma.
- Spend lot
of time with your family, kids and friends.
- Don't leave
yourself alone, evil thoughts will start capturing your mindset.
- Indulge
yourself in some useful activities like exercise, yoga, sports, reading
etc.
It is rightly said that till the time you have Hands, Legs and
Mind working you can conquer the world. No battle is lost until you yourself
give up. Its always your mindset that can take a person to the top or can bring
a person down. So, always keep your mindset so strong that these thing should
not bother you much.
Well there are many other reasons for which people commit suicide.
Its my humble request for all the people to please stop such kind of practice
as you give a shot and die once but your parents and family they die daily bearing
all the pain and sorrow. Nobody can fulfill your place in your surroundings, Life is
precious live it in such a way that you become an example for the others. Always
encourage people to stay strong both emotionally and mentally. Never ever loose
hope because there are a whole lot of opportunities waiting for you to grab.
Every closing door leads you to a new opening. Always stay positive, don't just
live for yourself live for others.It will give happiness not only to you but
will be helpful in making your surroundings happy and prosperous.
So, don't end your life just like this, Do something big that
people admire you for the way you lived your life before closing your eyes. You
are a star, may be that wasn't your time that's why people were unable to spot
you, have some courage and patience, believe me one day you will shine bright and
people will notice you.
I hope that the above message won't go waste and people will
understand their worth and we could build a better tomorrow.
Many of you will read this and close your browser window but its
my request to share it with just 1 and ask them to share with 1. Let's join our
hands to spread this message, so that no mother loose her son/daughter, no
child loose his/her father/mother, no sister loose her brother and vice-versa
and no group of friends have dull faces.
So Friends let's start a chain to build a better tomorrow.
1 Share = 1 Life saved
And by this we can save millions of lives.
Let's step towards a better future.
#bkaks
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