Sunday 6 May 2018

What needs to be Changed..? The Clothes or the Thinking..?

She came to the temple wearing a suit ( suitable according to the place) his eyes were continuously following her and as she bends down to take the blessings of the God, her dupatta falls and his eyes shine in glory thinking of the ways to get her to his bed. Comm'on man its not his fault!! its the fault of her dress.If the dupatta had not fallen he wouldn't have thought about her that way.

She came to the market wearing jeans and top his eyes were again following her (he is a man and its his duty to check out every girl) while shopping she stretches to reach out for something, he got his chance as that's what he was waiting for because he got the chance to see that milky white waist and thinking of the million ways to have that flesh under his teeth. Again no no no!!! not his fault, it was the dress again, if it would have properly tucked in, I swear!! he would have never thought about her like this.

Now they both met at a party. He dressed well thinking he should look like a gentlemen but damn man there are some hot girls around you, how can the devil keep on sleeping and more over girls are wearing party dress, knee length and mini skirts. How come a man can take his eyes off them as checking out is obligatory. Those smooth legs, fleshy thighs and well maintained figure in that dress inviting him to take her to a lonely place where he have the freedom to do anything with her. Again you are getting him wrong haan!! again you are blaming it on him? Blame her dress that invites him to think about her that way.

And I was wandering that he was right. It was not his fault, the dress was too much revealing, that changed his mind. If the girls would have worn proper clothes, fully covered, then his intentions wouldn't have changed. I was also very much convinced that it was the fault of clothes, they definitely need a change.

And on one fine day on the streets, he met pardanashin ( lady wearing burqa, a muslim traditional dress). Fully covered no body part was visible. I thought this is a suitable dress a girl should wear, this time his thinking will not change as there was nothing visible, how can he think bad about her. Now I was happy that clothes should be changed. But wait! wait! wait! maybe her body was fully covered but feet were still visible and that was enough for his dirty mind to get upon her. Aah! It was disheartening. I was proven wrong. It was not the fault of the clothes.

I found clothes crying in a corner alone and I asked," why are you crying?' clothes replied, you don't trust us, It was never our mistake. And that day I realized that we humans always believe in lies with our eyes closed. Yes!!! the clothes were right it was not their fault. It was his thinking that was found guilty.

So, what to do now. How can we make it more clear that clothes were not at fault, so I replaced the girls behind those dresses with his sister/mother/daughter. Man!!! results were surprising, this time his thinking didn't change. He doesn't grown any bad intentions for her. How can he do so, as the girl wearing that dress was his own sister/mother/daughter, how can he think such unacceptable things for her. Now I was very much clear in my mind that clothes were not at the guilt.

Please always teach your male child to respect the female section. Covering the whole body is not the solution. Dress the way you feel like and are comfortable in girls. The thinking of the society especially males need to be altered not your clothes. Its not always about the type of clothes a girl wears, one should always try to behave properly and respect girls. They are not a piece of meat that you want snatch. Girls if you find someone staring at you like a hungry dog, Just hit him in the face or wherever you feel like. No matter what a female wears before growing bad intentions for a girl just give a thought to your mind, What if the same thing happens with your mother or sister or daughter?




So, I request to all, before blaming the clothes of a girl, Blame the thoughts that we carry in our mind. I have written what I feel like. Do leave your thoughts in comments section.

(Based on recent past incidents)

Thank You.


Follow me on Instagram
Join me on  Facebook

#bkaks

8 comments:

  1. Salute to u man! & your thinking.I really appreciate the way of writing & your thinking.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Absolute the kind of people we need in world. I just wish everyone starts thinking this way. Many applauds for presenting this so well.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thankew very much.. do spread the message.. to build a better tomorrow..
      Thank you.

      Delete
  3. Thnk u so much do spread the message so that girls should not blam for d clothes she wear
    Nd yes its all about thinking

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Pleasure is all mine.. just a little help can see a drastic change..

      Delete
  4. I really appreciate your way of thinking. This is something which everyone needs to understand in our country. Keep writing such blogs

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks for the appreciation. Will surely continue to write.

      Delete